Georgie Bingham: One Barry Lane
It was really touching to see how many tributes were made to Barry Lane last week. He passed away after Christmas following a short period of illness and his death came far too soon.
I hope it’s fitting that I tell you what little I know of him after his wonderful lifetime in golf; he was one of my favourite people on tour and everyone will miss his presence hugely.
I have only been on the Legends Tour for two seasons but filmed with him early on. I think my first memory of Barry is the Ryder Cup 1993 - so I was excited to meet him, all golf fans love meeting Ryder Cup players (I have written about this as a topic before I think!).
Barry was dry, funny and incredibly friendly and welcoming. He always seemed very at peace and he and Camilla had the kind of relationship I strive for, seemingly never tired of each others company, always smiling or laughing and thoroughly living their lives to the full. Funnily enough, he and his wife embodied what the Legends Tour is about; it’s a ‘destination tour’ and many players bring their wives to tournaments to caddy and socialise with them.
Golfers get to keep playing the game they love and keep the competitive juices flowing but it’s also a much more relaxed environment off the course than their earlier careers. I don’t feel that I need to tell you too much about Barry’s career - much has been written about that; but I hope to convey how loved and popular he was, and the huge hole he’ll leave on tour this year.
Our 2022 season ended in Mauritius in December; this year Barry and Camilla travelled out to spend some final time with his peers. They all had a wonderful evening together where the newly named ‘Barry Lane Rookie of the Year’ Award was handed out to Adilson da Silva - but the primary purpose of the event was for players to see and spend time with Barry. He tweeted about the evening and his trip to Mauritius and I know how much it meant to everyone to have him around even though he was too unwell to play.
Barry was also really kind. He was fun and funny but also went out of his way to help others. When I tweeted last year about finding a golf psychologist to help me stop getting ahead of myself on the course (something I call “glory/catastrophe projection”) he was kind enough to get in touch to explain how Camilla had helped him to conquer this problem and just concentrate on the next shot.
He gave me a few pointers to help and said we’d talk about it at the next tournament. Bearing in mind I am just the tour reporter, and this is me whingeing about my own, crappy, amateur golfing problems in my weekly women’s division, I was so touched he took the time.
When my local club Thorpeness Country Club were celebrating their Centenary Year, he also sent the most lovely video tribute to them and their head pro Christine Langford who he’s known for many years. Barry took time for people. It set him apart.
Tributes to Barry were plentiful and heartfelt. I’m not surprised because he really was a bloody good bloke.
Georgie Bingham, broadcaster and journalist, writes a bi-weekly column for The Cut Stuff. She’s golf obsessed. She’s ready to go behind the tour.
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